5 Video Game Recommendations from a Couples Therapist
As both an avid gamer and a couples therapist, I’ve seen how video games can become a surprisingly meaningful way to connect with your partner. While games can help us step into a character’s shoes in a new world and work through challenges, they can also strengthen relationships. Playing video games as a couple can improve communication, help you navigate conflict, and create opportunities to work toward a shared goal—all within a fun, low-stakes environment.
Co-op (cooperative) video games, in particular, are especially powerful for this. These are games where two or more players work together as a team rather than compete against each other. That shared experience can mirror many of the dynamics we see in relationships.
The following games are all meant to be beginner-friendly video games but with enough interest and engagement for anyone to enjoy. Here are my top 5 co-op video game recommendations for couples, from a couples therapist’s perspective.
5 Co-Op Video Games for Couples
5) Sea of Stars
Sea of Stars is a turn-based RPG that follows two Solstice Warrior heroes and their friend as they journey through a fantasy world to stop an immortal alchemist. This game is a great fit for people who enjoy nostalgia, thanks to its 16-bit-inspired style and exploration-based gameplay.
Because combat is turn-based, it encourages thoughtful decision-making, strategy, and collaboration. A great bonus is that you can play with up to three players, making this a great option for more than 2 players. For relationships, this creates a natural opportunity to practice compromise, patience, and shared problem-solving—all essential relationship skills.
4) Split Fiction
Split Fiction is an action-adventure game about two writers who become trapped in their own stories—one in a sci-fi world and the other in a fantasy setting—and must work together to escape. As they go through their stories, the two women discover more and more about each other and the emotional roots of their narratives.
This game is ideal for couples who want to strengthen their ability to solve problems collaboratively. It requires teamwork, communication, and flexibility as you navigate puzzles and challenges together. In addition, the characters go through personal lessons about the importance of vulnerability and transparency to further their bond.
3) Stardew Valley
Stardew Valley is a farming simulation game where you inherit your grandfather’s farm in a small village. Along the way, you build relationships with villagers, grow your farm, and explore the surrounding world.
This is a great option for couples who prefer a more relaxed pace. It allows each partner to do their own thing while still contributing to shared goals. For relationships, this balance can support independence within connection, which is a key dynamic in healthy partnerships.
2) Overcooked
Overcooked is a chaotic, fast-paced cooking game where players must prepare meals under pressure in constantly changing kitchen environments.
This game is not for the faint of heart. It demands clear, immediate communication, teamwork, and adaptability as you race against the clock. For couples working on communication or conflict resolution, this game can be surprisingly revealing—because yes, disagreements will likely happen. The key is how you navigate them together.
1) It Takes Two
It Takes Two earns the top spot for a reason. This co-op action game follows a married couple on the brink of divorce who are magically transformed into dolls and must work together to find their way back to being human.
The game explores themes of relationship strain, parenting, and emotional disconnection, while requiring constant collaboration to progress. For people who are parents especially, this story can feel very real. It highlights how relationships require effort, flexibility, and moments of reconnection, even when things feel strained.
Bonus: Untitled Goose Game
Untitled Goose Game lets you play as a mischievous goose causing chaos in a quiet village. In co-op mode, a second goose joins in, doubling the trouble.
Is it deeply therapeutic? No lol. But it is a fun, low-stakes way to laugh together, which is just as important. Sometimes, connection comes from simply being playful with each other.
I hope you enjoy all of these video game recommendations and that they result in moments of fun and connection in your relationship. Keep an eye out for future recommendations from us!
